All Family Sites

Secrets & Tips for a Happier Family

Unfortunate as it may be, stress is something that cannot be avoided entirely by any of us. Quite to the contrary in fact, stress is a normal, natural and inevitable part of living life as a human being, meaning it is far more proactive to focus on dealing with stress, rather than preventing it.

Of course, there’s a big difference between those that are perpetually stressed for no reason and those that simply find themselves struggling to cope from time to time. As far as the experts at are concerned, anyone affected by stress to such an extent that it has largely taken over their life should absolutely consider professional advice and intervention. For everyone else on the other hand, it is simply a case of approaching the subject of stress proactively and realistically, in order to avoid being overwhelmed during stressful periods.

Addressing the Cause

For example, in the vast majority of instances where stress becomes problematic, it has been caused by some kind of scenario or problem. And when there is a problem, there is always a solution. Admittedly, it may be a difficult, complex or elusive solution, but there is always a solution nonetheless. As such, it simply makes sense to focus on whatever it is that is causing the stress, in order to ideally address the problem. Easier said than done, but a good place to start nonetheless.

Be Active

As far as the vast majority of experts are concerned, regular exercise and physical activity in general represent the most effective solution when it comes to stress. While it’s not to say that exercise can and will make stress vanish into thin air, it can certainly work wonders when it comes to alleviating many of the unpleasant symptoms associated with stress. Exercise will clear your head, serve as an outlet for aggression and generally put you in a much better position to approach your problems.

Take Control

Under no circumstances is it ever advisable to accept that you have lost control and that there is nothing you can do. The reason being that if you do so, you are guaranteed to feel even more stressed about whatever it is you are already stressed about due to feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. By contrast, the empowerment that comes with taking control and responsibility for yourself and your well-being can in its own right give your chances of overcoming any stressful situation an enormous head start.

Connect With People

Try to remember that when it comes to stress and anxiety, there is a very big difference between discussing your problems with other people and ranting. While a good rant can certainly be effective when it comes to getting things off your chest, these nonetheless tend to be one-sided conversations mostly filled with rhetorical statements. Actually taking the time to calmly and rationally discuss your problems with others can however be extraordinarily beneficial.  Not only is it highly comforting to realise that you are not the only person living with stress and anxiety, but to gain a third party perspective on your own personal problems is often to begin seeing things in an entirely different light.

Spoil Yourself

While you may feel compelled to call yourself names, beat yourself up and continually tell yourself to ‘get a grip’, you may in fact find it considerably more beneficial to spoil yourself. These days, it’s becoming the norm for the vast majority of people to find any and every excuse in the world not to reward themselves, while at the same time picking fault and generally giving themselves a hard time about their imperfections. The problem being that in doing so, the result will only ever be potentially minor and insignificant issues being blown entirely out of proportion. Long story short – spend some time learning how to spoil yourself.

Get Healthy

A quick point but an important point nonetheless, you are fundamentally more likely to struggle with stress and anxiety if you are out of shape and unhealthy.  Physical and psychological strength, resilience and durability are all entirely dependent on strong physical health. As such, getting yourself in a good state of health represents an important step in the process.

Seek Professional Advice

Last but not least, it’s always worth remembering that there is no such thing as a time too early to seek professional input. Even if it is simply for a casual chat to explore a variety of stress-busting techniques, you may find the advice of an experienced expert genuinely invaluable.

Leave a Reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.